Please note the following: I have not proof read this. I am presently very very tired.
I hate "good luck." Please do not misunderstand, though. I'm merely stating an absolute hate for the phrase in order to sound more dramatic... also to lend myself a window for a digression later on...I suppose I can't make that digression now, though, since I've shown my tricks... I digress
Though I say "I hate 'good luck,'" the phrase "good luck" is actually an important social device in the English language. I believe it to be on par with asking someone how their day has, when you don't really, in fact, care how their day has been. "Good luck" can also be used in meaningful ways, I think. Predominantly, however, it's just something to say when you have nothing else.
All of that said, there are situations wherein the phrase "good luck" is a borderline insult (I understand that in intent, it's not, but just hear me out.)
A man is about to be heading into a law school entrance exam, which he has been studying for since 6 months prior. To tell this man "good luck" would be an insult to his preparation and intelligence. Luck won't have a damn thing to do with his passing that test with flying colors. There will be no one to thank but himself.
I am not making any claims that wishing someone good luck is by any means a bad thing. My point is just this: acknowledge someone when they've achieved something by their own labors. That person may not think twice about a simple "good luck," but I guarantee they will notice a complement of their strength and perseverance.
Basically, mix up your automatic phrases. People will notice when you've taken the time something new and break the obligatory script, and you will have made them feel prouder for it.
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